Love will conquer the distance. Isn't it an interesting thing to know that love can do something that is unbelievable, such as maintaining a stable long distance relationship with your boyfriend? But, why the last time you call your boyfriend, he didn't answer? Why he didn't reply to your text messages and emails? Is there something wrong with him? Is he beginning to pull away from you?
Various thoughts will start to fill your mind with assumptions and guesses. Though not all of them are true, there is still a big possibility that your boyfriend is cheating on you over there. Well, you can't see him and what he's doing, right? That's why it's possible that he's cheating. But, stop your bad thoughts for a while. If you've been having a bad long distance relationship with your boyfriend, then it's time for you to ponder, not to assume what might be happening to him.
You know, this will help you to calm down. When you have a difficulty in maintaining your long distance relationship, then it's time to change your strategy. Why? That's because you can't do the same thing and expect different result. For instance, if you've been trying to call him all day, every hour, then you should stop it right now. If you've been sending numerous emails to him during the past three days, then stop it right there. Let the things melt. Let the things take its course.
You need calmness. Remember that you don't need to do something in order to accomplish something. Sometimes, doing nothing will help you to accomplish everything. That's why you need to wait, and see how things are going. Wait for a few days. Don't do anything. Don't send him texts and don't call him.
Will it help you to accomplish things? Of course, by stop doing whatever you are doing right now... by stop being needy toward him, he will come to you. Think about it in his perspective. He has seen many emails and missed calls from you in the past few days, and now he doesn't see any of it. What will he do? Of course, he will wonder why you aren't sending any more messages to him. And if you keep waiting long enough, he will eventually call you just to know what's going on. At that time, you'll finally talk with him.
You'll talk heart to heart... trying to figure out how to fix your long distance relationship.
Surviving Long Distance Relationships - Keeping the Love of Your Man
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